marriage – Orangette https://orangette.net Wed, 30 Nov 2016 17:57:17 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.2.2 November 30 https://orangette.net/2016/11/november-30/ https://orangette.net/2016/11/november-30/#comments Wed, 30 Nov 2016 12:56:41 +0000 http://orangette.net/?p=9748 I’ve always been drawn to the things we’re not supposed to talk about. I remember the night when, toward the end of writing A Homemade Life, I got into bed, switched off the light, and suddenly was hit with a very bad idea, an almost electric impulse to write about my father’s death. I wanted to take it out of my head and put it somewhere else: the color of his skin, the strange percussion of his breath, the nurse calling up the stairs in the middle of the night. I wasn’t writing a book about my dad, and I wasn’t writing a book about death; I was writing a food memoir, tra la la, with fifty recipes and a…

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It’s all there https://orangette.net/2009/07/its-all-there/ https://orangette.net/2009/07/its-all-there/#comments Tue, 14 Jul 2009 01:58:00 +0000 https://elitemporaryblog.wordpress.com/2009/07/14/its-all-there Well. That took a little longer than I expected. Thank you for hanging in there, and even more, for being so understanding. I missed you all, and I missed being here. I was having a pretty rough time a couple of months ago. You could probably see it more clearly, actually, than I could. I have never, ever, done something as consuming as this opening-a-restaurant business. Even writing a book doesn’t compare. People had warned us that projects like these always take twice as long and cost twice as much as you expect them to, and dude, that is Seriously. No. Joke. It’s been like Little Shop of Horrors over here, only the role of Audrey II, the man-eating plant,…

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